I think I am surely eligible to answer this question as I have failed badly in my life.
My story of failure.
From my childhood I wanted to be a cricketer . In 2015 I decided to give my time and life to cricket. I dropped my studies fighting with my parents for cricket. I played zonal level in 2018. Other side I had a huge crush on a girl from 7 years. At that time being a cricketer and getting my crush in my life was everything for me. At the end of 2017 my father’s business was ruined and came to end. Our family lots it’s regular income and we were in economic crises. My fee and leaving cost was so much that my father couldn’t fulfilled as our family was surviving without any income. Than for my dream I started to work in bars as server. Again in 2018 I got chance I even performed well because of politics my place was given to other guy. As I heard this news I was in tears. I lost all hopes than seeing my family conditions I decided to gave up. In some time my crush’s marriage took place. I was really broken. I even felt this life is waste for me. I started consuming drugs and all but after some days I realized that I have change , I should leave my life happily. Than I decided to to bring back my confidence , positivity, happiness in my life.
Here are some steps I took to change my self.
1.firstly I made my brain to believe that cricket and my crush was just part of my life without them also I can be happy.
2.if you want change your situation then first change yourself. I started to make myself better . Like workout, meditation and watching positive spiritual videos to know the way of life.
3. leave your past. If you want to move forward and make your life happy than you have to forget your past.
4. Setting new goals. Set new goals and educate yourself to those.
5. Going to new places and meeting new peoples.
6. Be fearless. Remember what ever happens it happens for some cause . If something very bad happened with you but also you are positive ,steady than something good awaits for you.
7. Have a smiling face. Believe me, it will work for you.
8. If you create your value everyone respects you and if You don’t value of yourself than no one cares about you. So just love yourself and focus on yourself to make yourself better day by day.
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